So I have about 4 posts I want to write up, so expect to see a bit from me in the next few days.
As I said in a previous post, I am online dating. I am also pretty much Asexual, zero desire to actually screw someone, little actual desire to date someone. Don’t even want a roommate. So as I am freaking out about a coffee date I have on Monday I ask myself Why?
Why am I doing this. Is it because I want it? And it came up today in an interview “You may not have children yet, but when you do…” And it occurs to me that everyone just assumes I am either a lesbian, or I will bear children, or maybe adopt. I am…ambivalent about this as well.
So why am I dating. The answer, I realize has less to do with anything I want, and what people want me to do. So I have decided to use my 6 month OKCupid package, and try dating a bit. At the end of it, I am going to assess if going forward this is something I want. Not what someone else is expecting me to do.